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No te enamores de una mujer intensa

No es pregunta, ni sugerencia. No es amenaza, ni ultimátum. Es una advertencia en favor de la salud mental de la humanidad.

No te enamores de una mujer intensa si no estás dispuesto a dejarte sorprender. Ellas pasarán varias horas pensando en diferentes maneras de mantenerte enamorado, de conquistarte y sorprenderte.

No te enamores de una mujer intensa si no estás preparado para recibir amor a manos llenas. Las mujeres con esta cualidad tienen el poder de dejarse sentir, ser frías no es una opción viable ni durable. Si les llegas al corazón se dan permiso de enamorarse, de ilusionarse, de creer, aún muriendo de miedo de volver a ser heridas. Ellas viven con la idea de que tú serás esa elección correcta y te hará sentir justo así.lluviaNo te cruces por el camino de una mujer a la que los demás han denominado como intensa si no quieres un ser incondicional a tu lado. Mucho menos si no estás listo para sentirte especial, porque si ella decide que tú podrías ser una buena aventura, estará ahí para ti, sin importar hora ni momento, posiblemente estará hasta cuando menos lo merezcas.

Si te encuentras en un momento donde ni tú confías en ti, no te relaciones con una mujer intensa, ella creerá más en ti que nadie más, te apoyará, te empujará, tomará tus retos como meta de los dos, trabajará contigo y estará pendiente de tu desarrollo. No te enamores de ella si no quieres ver en sus ojos el orgullo de haberte visto lograr lo que sólo ella sabe realmente el esfuerzo que representó.

ciudadNo te enamores de la mujer que te demuestra que le importas de una y mil maneras, porque las mujeres intensas son así, aman a full, se entregan completas y normalmente, tienen la característica de ser creativas para que de todas las maneras posibles, sepas lo importante que eres, que ocupas más tiempo de lo normal en sus cabezas y que los momentos contigo son invaluables. No te enamores de ella si no apreciarás el hecho de saber que para ella es natural atesorar las fechas, los momentos, los recuerdos, las sonrisas y hasta los aromas de sus días juntos.

Si no estás listo para prestar atención a alguien más que no seas tú mismo, no permitas que una mujer intensa te regale su corazón, porque al hacerlo, ella esperará que tú también lo cuides; que a tu manera, también la ames; que a tu creatividad, también le hagas saber la importancia que ella tiene en tu vibailarda; que te preocupes por sus proyectos, tanto como lo haces por los tuyos; que estés ilimitadamente para ella, tal como ella lo hará por ti. No te envuelvas con una mujer intensa, porque cuando tú no tengas más ganas de estar, ella luchará por ti, ya que estará convencida que siempre puede haber una mejor versión de los dos como pareja.

No te enamores, no enredes tu corazón, ni des señales confusas a este maravilloso espécimen de mujer, pues cuando llegues a estar sin ella, conocerás el vacío de saber que nunca nadie más te amará de una manera tan honesta, tan llena, tan transparente como solo una mujer intensa, lo sabe hacer.

9 WAYS TO TELL YOU ARE IN A GOOD RELATIONSHIP

RANDOMLY FOUND THIS ARTICLE, BUT TURNED OUT TO BE SO ACCURATE THAT IT NEEDS TO BE POST… there is no magic formula ever as each relationship (any kind) is unique but, these 9 aspects are quite a good criteria to determine if whether you are standing in a good relationship or you are deliberately wasting your time.
Have you ever found yourself asking “How do I know that I am in a good relationship?”

This is a common question asked to coaching clients and the way that most respond after listening to the particular clients own relationship they put a spin on a question and ask them “What do think a good relationship should give to the people in it?”

While all relationships both friendships and those a little more intimate, are different; with different people looking for different things from each other, there are some ways you can tell if you are in a good relationship and things are going well.  In the following article we will look at 9 of the ways to tell you are in a good relationship and how to turn around a bad relationship.

 1. No-one is playing games.

Humans have a habit of making things much harder than it needs to be, particularly when it comes to relationships and things involving our hearts.  Often the problems start when you become too familiar with feeling hurt or wronged, in a state of constant jealousy, always feeling insecure, honest and trust became less important, the word love is not used in the right context, sex turned into some kind of gameplay, feelings need to be guessed and face to face conversations became faceless digital texting.  Rather than running away from the problems developing in your relationship, it is important to face up to them and fix them.

And definitely never resist yourself from speaking up when you feel like you are being played with.

2. Both partners are at the same place emotionally.

If you want a serious and committed relationship, the worst thing you can do that will ensure that you never have one is to be cagey about your emotions and needs.  If your partner gets the impression that a casual relationship is fine, you will probably never have anything more than a casual relationship.  You should be clear from the get go exactly what you want from your relationship, if not then – when you know it.  If you push someone away by being honest about your feelings, then it’s possible that they weren’t right for you or ready to commit anyway.

3. You communicate clearly, honestly and openly.

It is important to never shy away from even the most difficult conversations in a relationship.  You will always build a stronger partnership I you talk and listen out for the truth, no matter how hard it is to take, instead of just going in circles.  Always say exactly what is on your mind and don’t mince your words.  It is never a good idea to expect people you care about to read your mind or guess what you are thinking and whatever you do, don’t play games of the heart or head.  Never consider half truths to be any better than lies, because they aren’t and problems will always arise when the complete truth comes out.

Choose your words carefully to avoid offending and listen without becoming defensive.  You shouldn’t see communication as being an important part of your relationship; you should see it as the relationship.  The main reasons good relationships turn to bad ones more often than not are down to issues connected to commitment, issues connected to trust and issues connected to communication.

4. Back up your loving words with loving deeds.

It is wise to really work on your romantic relationship so that when you tell them you love them, it is actually just a verbal back up to what they already know from the way you have treated them day to day.  It’s often the little things that make the biggest impact.  Throughout the day, show them how much love them by doing things that prove they are on your mind.

You can say I love you or sorry as many times as you like, but if you do not actually prove that you mean those words by backing them up with actions, they won’t mean a thing.

5. No-one expects perfection from the relationship.

Just because your relationship is a good one, it doesn’t mean it is perfect.  No relationship will ever be perfect, but you know you are onto a good thing when you are willing to open up to one another and really work on things.

Your close friends and significant other will never be perfect, but it is possible that they are perfect for you.  Allow them the chance to prove this to you.  When you put expectations to one side, you can start to really appreciate and enjoy the people you love for themselves. All relationships have their ups and downs; you know you are in a good relationship when there is nowhere else you want to be, despite what life throws at you.

6. When being present, vulnerable and honest are the things that are held most sacred in the relationship.

It probably goes against most of the fibres of your body and soul, but the strongest love you can experience is the one that breaks down through all your protective layers and leaves you feeling exposed and vulnerable.  This involves taking that plunge and trusting the other person to accept you when you are being your most honest and open with them.  As well as being there for each other, through the good times and through the bad times and not only being there in person and body, but in spirit an mind too.

So don’t just stay in a relationship with someone, really open up to that person and tear down all barriers and boundaries and allow them the chance to experience the REAL you.

7. When teamwork and freedom go hand in hand.

It is important to remember that you can’t force someone to love you or stay with you.  Begging them to stay when they want to walk away, does not make for a good or healthy relationship.  On the other side of the coin, you never should feel trapped into a relationship, because at the heart of all good relationships is freedom.

Along with freedom, teamwork is also an important part of the brickwork to a good relationship.  One of the best ways to find personal happiness and growth is in an intimate and long-term relationship, so it will always work in your favour if you meet the other person halfway..  You will always achieve more in and from life if rather than working against them or on your own, you work together with your partner.  A good relationship is based on how strong the component parts of that relationship are, the people involved in it and their strength will depend on whether the relationship is a good quality one or not.

Although you wish they were – no relationship is ever 50/50 all of the time, if any of the time.  Neither of you can be 100% or 50% all the time, and on the days when either of you are 20% or 80%, the other has to fill in the gap.  Meeting halfway is never really meeting halfway but being able to adjust yourself and your life and time to be what the other person needs at that moment in time.

8. When you share, celebrate and embrace one another’s personal growth.

You are in a good relationship when you are in it with someone you can get lost in, but when you are in it with someone who helps you discover who you are and who you want to be.  They help you find and enable you to become the best you, you can be.  When you consider it this way, you never meet the best in each other, but instead you help one another to grow into the best versions of each other by nurturing one another’s personal growth, spending time with each other.

If you were to sit down and think truthfully about how and what you and your partner add to one another’s lives, you will actually find that you have chosen to share things together such as pain, joy, bad times and good times.

9. No-one outside of the relationship is directing it.

Relationships are difficult to understand, especially when looked at from the outside in.  So it is important to never let people on the outside, no matter how well-meaning they are, direct or call shots affecting your relationship with your significant other.  I you are experiencing difficulties or going through a rough patch with your partner, sort it out and work on those problems with them and not some busybody.

Always live your life for you, not other people.  When it comes to deciding whether you are in a good relationship for you or not, the decision is yours.  Stop worrying about what everyone else thinks or wants you to do and work out what you yourself want.

POEMA A UN AMIGO – Jorge Luis Borges

No puedo darte soluciones para todos los problemas de la vida,
ni tengo respuestas para tus dudas o temores,
pero puedo escucharte y compartirlo contigo.

No puedo cambiar tu pasado ni tu futuro.
Pero cuando me necesites estaré junto a ti.

No puedo evitar que tropieces.
Solamente puedo ofrecerte mi mano para que te sujetes y no caigas.

Tus alegrías, tus triunfos y tus éxitos no son míos.
Pero disfruto sinceramente cuando te veo feliz.

No juzgo las decisiones que tomas en la vida.
Me limito a apoyarte, a estimularte y a ayudarte si me lo pides.

No puedo trazarte limites dentro de los cuales debes actuar,
pero si te ofrezco el espacio necesario para crecer.

No puedo evitar tus sufrimientos cuando alguna pena te parta el corazón,
pero puedo llorar contigo y recoger los pedazos para armarlo de nuevo.

No puedo decirte quien eres ni quien deberías ser.
Solamente puedo quererte como eres y ser tu amigo.
En estos días oré por ti…

En estos días me puse a recordar a mis amistades mas preciosas.
Soy una persona feliz: tengo mas amigos de lo que imaginaba.
Eso es lo que ellos me dicen, me lo demuestran.
Es lo que siento por todos ellos.
Veo el brillo en sus ojos, la sonrisa espontánea y la alegría que sienten al verme.
Y yo también siento paz y alegría cuando los veo y cuando hablamos,
sea en la alegría o sea en la serenidad.

En estos días pensé en mis amigos y amigas,
entre ellos, apareciste tú.
No estabas arriba, ni abajo ni en medio.
No encabezabas ni concluías la lista.
No eras el número uno ni el número final.

Lo que sé es que te destacabas por alguna cualidad que
transmitías y con la cual desde hace tiempo se ennoblece mi vida.

Y tampoco tengo la pretensión de ser el primero, el segundo o el tercero de tu lista.
Basta que me quieras como amigo.

Entonces entendí que realmente somos amigos.
Hice lo que todo amigo:
Oré… y le agradecí a Dios por ti.

Gracias por ser mi amigo.

Love. Einstein’s Letter to his daugther

At the end of the 1980s, Lieserl, the daughter of the famous genius, donated 1,400 letters written by Einstein to Hebrew University, with the order does not make public its content until two decades after his death.

El Amor. Carta de Albert Einstein a su hija

This is one of them. Lieserl Einstein.

“When I proposed the theory of relativity, very few understood me, and what I will now reveal that you transmit to the site will also collide with incomprehension and harms of the world.”

Even so, I ask you custodies it all the time as needed, years, decades, until society has advanced enough to accommodate what I explain below.

There is an extremely powerful force for which so far, science has not found a formal explanation. It is a force that includes and governs all the others, and even is behind any phenomenon that it operates in the universe and yet has been identified by us. This universal force is love.

When scientists were looking for a unified theory of the universe they forgot the most invisible and powerful forces.

Love is light, because it illuminates who gives it and receive it. Love is gravity, because it makes some people feel attracted by each other. Love is power, because it multiplies the best thing we have, and allows that humanity is not extinguished in their blind egoism. Love reveals and revealed. By love lives and dies. Love is God, and God is love.

This force explains it all and gives sense uppercase to life. This is the variable that we have ignored for too long, perhaps because love gives us fear, since it is the only energy of the universe that man has not learned to handle at your leisure.

To give visibility to the love, I made a simple substitution in my most famous equation. If instead of E = mc2 accept that it can be obtained by the energy to heal the world through love multiplied by the speed of light squared, will arrive at the conclusion that love is the most powerful force that exists, because it has no limits.

After the failure of humanity in the use and control of the other forces of the universe, that have turned against us, is urgent that we nourish for another kind of energy. If we want our species to survive, if we intend to find a meaning to life, if we want to save the world and every sentient being that into the lives, love is the only and the last response.

Perhaps we are not even prepared to fabricate a love pump, a device powerful enough to destroy all the hatred, selfishness and greed that plague the planet. However, each individual carries inside a small but powerful generator of love whose energy waiting to be released.

When we learn how to give and receive this universal energy, dear Lieserl, double check that all love overcomes it, transcends everything and can do everything, because love is the quintessence of life.

I deeply regret having failed to express what has my heart, which has silently heartbeat for you all my life. It may be too late to ask for forgiveness, but as time is relative, I need to tell you I love you and thanks to you I have come to the last answer! “.”

“Your father: Albert Einstein”.

Insights from the Woods

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Changes have been and still are the engine of my life, providing me that sense of being alive.
Changes aren’t easy specially if they come in a row.
Changes are always meant to make us better.
Changes might hurt but they make you resilient.

Nothing has ever been taken for granted but most of the time we forget that every single person has a unique view of the world,e.g. an act of solidarity to someone else can be taken personally as something  disrespectful.   But life has “a funny way” to send us (NOT SO) kind reminders on how to keep walking our personal growth path, some of them hurt, nobody said it would be easy but as I have always said: opportunities exists for those who are willing to take them.  What matters here is what we learn every day, how much love we have for others, how we become better people and overcome the obstacles (if they are meant to be overcome), hour capacity to understand and respect the different perspectives, but it is also key to forget any expectations and just enjoy the moment because, everything can change the next minute and there’s no insurance for unfulfilled expectations and broken dreams.

Apologize, make clear your points, but never expected anything in return… anyway, what’s meant to be will always find a why, an Time on it’s universal wisdom will find the opportunities for you to keep growing and why not, enlighten those around you.

Nothing is or has to be perfect so here I am, as usual, not hoping, not waiting, walking my journey alone and trying to learn as much as  I can from the life lessons, whilst giving my best personal and professionally.

So after all that there’s not much to add from being “In the Woods”… Every single day brings new opportunities to wake up and live a life well lived. Whatever tomorrow brings I’ll be there.

Thanks Mom!

It’s May 11th, Mom’s BD… Another year I can’t celebrate with her.
An admirable entrepreneur and empowered hell of a woman!

Mom’s has always been an outstanding woman who has strongly faced every single challenge she has had in life. Mom’s the ultimate example of empowerment and courage. Mom’s my hero.

On her BD I would like to thank her for:

  • Always taking care of us, always defends us.
  • Work her ass out to give us the best she cans
  • Being my #1 Fan (and special sponsor)
  • Caring about every single stupid issue I could be worried about,
  • Caring I wore a sweater, I ate enough, I couldn’t sleep well, carry an umbrella
  • Trying to understand my random ideas
  • Support me in those random projects without having a clue.
  • TRUSTING ME
  • Making me feel special instead of awkward.
  • Caring for my looks, freaking out about my tattoo.
  • ALWAYS being eager to celebrate my birthday, far more than you want to celebrate yours.
  • Buying me the fancy stuff I wouldn’t think I deserve.
  • Still support me when I do something stupid,
  • Embrace my flaws
  • Supporting me in that “becoming a blogger project”
  • Skipping lunchs in order to be able to pay the bills.
  • Knowing my downs and give me support, without asking for it.

Inherite me your awesomeness!!!

Plagio no apto para diabéticos

DISCLAIMER:  blame PMS

Yo no quiero un amor civilizado,
Yo no quiero catorce de febrero
Ni cumpleaños feliz.
Yo no quiero que cargues maletas;
Yo no quiero que eligir tu champú (ni nada tuyo);
Yo no quiero cenas los viernes;
Yo si quiero SFO con aguacero
Yo no quiero comerme una manzana
Dos veces por semana
Sin ganas de comer.
Lo que yo quiero, corazón valiente,
Es que crezcamos así.

Ya no importa cada año que espere
Cada vuelo que tomé
Porque el cielo ha conspirado en mi favor
Y en un segundo de rendirme te encontré
Me haces bien
Enciendes luces en mi alma

Creo en nosotros, en mañana
Y en esta ilusión
Que me ha vuelto indestructible
Que detuvo mi caída libre
Te seguí y rescribiste mi presente

El pasado es un mal sueño que acabo
Un incendio que tu atención apagó
Cuando estaba a medio paso de caer
Mis silencios se encontraron con tu voz
Mi dolor se quedo kilómetros atrás
Y mis fantasmas hoy por fin están en paz

Que todo el mundo cabe en el teléfono
Que no hay distancias grandes para esta ilusión
Que todo es perfecto cuando te siento
Tan cerca aunque estés alguito lejos

Esa alma color cielo y esos ojos magnéticos
Ese corazón mágico que solo tiene palabras para ponerme bien
Esa brisa que me apacigua, refresca la ciudad.

Nunca coincidí con alguien que pudiese guiarme tan alto,
alto hasta llegar, mas alto que el sol, y ver pequeño el universo
Gracias por tu presencia, Gracias por estar,
Gracias por quererme con defectos y manías

Lately I’ve been, I’ve been losing sleep
Dreaming about the things that we could be
But, baby I’ve been, I’ve been praying hard
Said no more counting dollars, we’ll be counting stars